how is consent culture going to prepare us for situations where we do not realize until later that we are misjudging our own boundaries
in my experience it doesn’t :( it does make it a hell of a lot easier to communicate about what went wrong?
It also means you can say “stop.” Consent is not an irrevocable transaction. If it turns out you aren’t comfortable with something, you have the right to end it.
Stephen Colbert (via wilwheaton)
Let me tell you, a joke that perfect comes along about once a year if you’re lucky.